how to describe it...

I just finished reading, "Finding Hope When a Child Dies: What Other Cultures Can Teach Us" by Sukie Miller. Here is a part that spoke to me.

in our search for a meaningful vocabulary for the experience of child loss, we need words that will contain the pain and isolation and chaos and the spiritual upheaval of all that has transpired. we need words that symbolize both suffering and healing, that evoke honor and suggest experience, new strength, and deeper vision - because all these are true after the death of a child.

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